My Ideal Mate, Whats your Ideal Mate

Okay, personally im looking for someone I can be myself around. Someone I dont have to try to impress by being something im not. I want someone who wants me for whats on the inside, rather than the outside. Guys compliment me daily and try to get at me all the time because of my looks. But when we start to converse and they realize, in order to get the goods, they will have to put in work, they move on. When they see I have standards, expectataions, dreams, and goals, they dont want me. Now dont get me wrong, this in no way takes away my confidence, I know I can pull a guy. But at this point its not about quantity, its about quality.

I need someone who can handle a strong black women, someone who is not afraid of a women speaking her mind, someone who understands im independent and im going to look out for me first, someone who knows I will look sexy as hell for me first, not because he wants me to. I want a guy who is about making money, someone who can hold an intellegient conversation, someone who is not afraid to speak his mind, someone who can take control because I can be a handful, a guy who takes care of him self, who has ambitions and goals, a guy who realize its the small things that impresses me, last but not least, my ideal mate would be a greater listener and supproter. So what leads me to the questions What's your Ideal Mate and why do you believe its hard for you to find him or her?????

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